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LAST MINUTE TSUNAMI FUNDRAISER FOR CHILDREN AND ORPHANS

We started the STUFFED PROJECT last week after we became email and phone acquainted with Tik and Neil Satterwhite. This Phuket couple have been working tirelessly for the last two months to help rebuild a school program so that the children in the area can begin to have some normalcy again in their lives. Every child in the Kamala project has lost someone from a parent to a family member to a close friend to a neighbor. While the Thai government will be rebuilding the school in the next year, at the moment the children need books, note pads, pencils and pens to begin classes again. For the first month they held classes in the lobby of a resort, but now have been moved to a small one-room building surrounded by a handful of tents where over 400 children attend classes daily. The Stuffed Project was created to help get money to purchase school supplies immediately for the students.

To help fund this area and these children we are doing one last push before I head to Thailand and asking for $5-20+ per stuffed animal or pair of sandals (we received 60 pairs of sandals from Teva). Your choice. All we ask is that you sign a tag so that the children know it came from an American friend.

All of the money raised from this will be kept separate from the overall donations for the AO NANG BOAT CLUB AND PHI PHI ISLAND FUND and donated to this program. To read more about it go to www.phuket-guide.com. You can either purchase through Pay Pal or send me a check or pay me cash when you see me. Thanks for your continued support.

Through a strange number of circumstances a fairy godfather has offered me a plane ticket and financial help to get me back to Thailand in mid-March! I am very excited to take all of the donations you guys have given to the people I stayed with there. This is amazing, exciting, exceeding my wildest imagination of what could be possible.

One of the big things we will be doing is helping rebuild boats. On Koh Lanta 92 boats were damaged. It's around $460 to rebuild a damaged boat and up to $2000 to buy a new one. We will be taking pictures of the people we meet and if you would like to send your donation with a photo of you (electronically or print of you) I will show the people we are giving money to who you all are. ALSO, I will be taking pictures of them and their community and writing about the people we meet to bring back to you all so you can have a more personal connection.

These are the websites of people we are helping:
http://www.tsunamihealing.com
http://www.phuketlifestyle.com/Tsunami.htm

Thank you all again.
Peace, Shanti

NEWS
http://www.phuketgazette.net/news/index.asp?id=4064&display=1

Hello friends and family

As you all know by now my Mother, Sister and I returned safely from Thailand on December 28th after an amazingly up and then down trip to the Southern Islands. We missed the Tsunami that hit the areas we visited (Ao Nang/Railay, Koh Lanta and Koh Phi Phi) by less than a day and were sitting in Bangkok getting a foot massage when the news started pouring in. We watched in horror for the next day and a half and then returned to the US to see how far the devastation had traveled.

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Read Paul Smith and other American survivors amazing stories about surviving the Tsunami: http://www.tsunamireliefla.org/stories.html

You don't need money to help with Tsunami relief. Try knitting! http://www.raincircle.com/scrubbie/

 

Now that I am one week back from Thailand and I have had a chance to gather my thoughts I would like to tell you all about the people who I met while I was there and how I am hoping to help them.

Meet Australian Elizabeth and her Thai husband Sun who run a small longtail boat tour operation out of Ao Nang (www.krabi-island-tours.com). When I met them on Poda Island December 16 I was very interested in their business because they are one of the many “small” businesses that manage to compete against the big tour companies by offering very customized, personalized tours where you can see pristine beaches that are a step beyond what every other tourist is seeing. I was hoping to write a story on this lovely couple and so we swapped email addresses. Then December 26th hit and they lost one of their boats and their engine. While they think they can repair their boat they are afraid that boat or not, the tourists are not coming back for this season and maybe even next. It’s people like Elizabeth and Sun who will struggle the most in the next year and will not see any of the aid money being sent over to Thailand because they were fortunate enough to not be injured or killed.

Elizabeth and I have been writing each other for the last day and here’s something she sent to me today. She is trying to be optimistic about the situation and knows that plenty of people are much worse off than her, still it’s hard to not imagine the sadness and concern she is feeling for herself and everyone around her. I wrote her today to tell her that we just got word that a wonderful family we stayed with on Phi Phi is alive and we were so happy. She was helping us look for them through her network of boatmen. She lives about 30km away from them by boat. I also asked her if there were any families around her who were desperately in needs and so here is her response.

Shanti.
 
That is good news inded about your feinds at Phi Phi. We would be happy to pass on money to them, as soon as it is safe to go back there. They haven't finished clearing up yet so I think no-one apart from rescue and clean-up workers are staying there.

 
We have found our engine and it is unfixable b/c it got dashed against rocks as opposed to sinking in the sand. We are trying to scrape together some money for a new one and to fix and replace the other things that are missing. Any donation towards that would be greatly appreciated.
 
There is a family I know in our village who could greatly do with some assistance. One of the baotmen was killed at Poda Isalnd and he left a wife, baby and mother all dependent on him. It wasn't even his own boat he was driving so he was living hand to mouth. I would be pleased to pass on any funds you can collect to his family too.
 
At the moment even those with boats are without an income b/c all the tourists have left. People have made a bit effort to get things cleaned up and back to normal but there is no business so everyone is very fearful of the future. Sun's Dad is repairing the hole in the boat today and we can fix that part in the next few days. Sun was all happy until I reminded him we would have to ROW the people around! Sun's Dad was asking what we would do now. The answer isI don't know - try to keep running the boats and just hope that we have some customers. Things are pretty grim for the rest of this year I fear.
 
We have given our boat to our driver until the other one is in service b/c he has a wife and 2 kids to support. He is finding it hard to get any fares though.
 
If you had some way to spread the message that the best way to help Thailand is to come and support the businesses that are still here that would be great. It is so nice of you to try to get some money through to help, but we just want to be able to try to make up the loss ourselves.
 
People here are very skeptical about the amount of money that will trickle down through aid organizations. The government and anyone with any power here is so corrupt that the Thai people take it for granted that they will all take a cut of whatever comes in before it get through to the people in need. It is sad but most likely true.
 
With respect to volunteers for building etc, I am sure that all help could be used especially in local communities like down in Phangar where it is mainly non-tourist based. It would probably be best to come here and find out who and how you could help rather than joining with aid organizations because they would probably have you cleaning beaches in front of posh resorts or re-building important facilities such a beach side bars for tourists. They really have their priorities mixed up by some accounts anyway. I'll let you know if I hear of any projects that sound good. We just got TV reception at home but they speak so fast it hard to follow the news...
 
Anyway, I'll keep in touch and thanks again for all your concern and good wishes.
 
Elizabeth

I am hoping to send money to her and to another friend of mine living in Bangkok who is planning on traveling back to Phi Phi in the next month to take supplies and money to the families who lost so much on that Island. If you are interested in contributing to helping these families monetarily I have set up a PAYPAL account and I will personally guarantee that everything sent to me gets to these people I have told you about. I will provide updates in the upcoming months about how they are doing as best as I can as well. If you, like me, have already made your donations to big organizations, but also want to actually see how your money can directly impact a few families then this is one way we can do it. I feel that anyone who receives this good karma money we are sending out will in turn hopefully help improve their community because they have been lucky. I know this sounds like a lot of trusting that humans will be good and not greedy, but I feel like in this case I have a few people picked out here who are genuinely in need and will take any contributions and multiply the money in many ways. I am looking at it as an adoption program of sorts. I will post updates every few months that I get from Elizabeth to let you all know how the money you send is helping these families. Please don’t feel obligated to send anything more than $1-10. I am sending this out to over 1,000 people who I know and so I feel that if we can even get $1 from everyone we know that is $1000 and that can go a long way for a small group of people who are looking at getting no money in the next year.

If you are wondering why I am putting forth the energy in doing this it is because I feel I was spared for a reason. For those of you who know me, you’ll know I am not a religious type or one who believes in higher powers, but I do believe that everything happens for a reason. The reason I chose Thailand as my vacation spot for a family trip with my Mother and sister (this was the first trip we had all taken together alone in 10 years!) is because it’s a safe, beautiful, amazing country. The people are generous, kind, and work their hardest to make sure you enjoy yourself to the utmost while there.This trip until the very end was by far one of the best vacations I have ever been on in my life. I was impressed with how well Thailand has managed their tourism industry and how they continue to open us Westerners with open arms in spite of how obnoxious we can be at times. They don’t laugh at us, they are honest, the people I came across wanted to make sure that we wanted to come back every year for the rest of our lives (sure the 22 hour plane ride from LAX sucked, but that isn’t their fault we are so far away). Anyway, so now that I have met Thailand, I want to the world to not just see the horror, but to know there is so much beauty there still.

Here are some more pictures of the families and communities I would like to help get aid to immediately. If you have any questions please email me and I will answer them as best as I can.

Toh Ko Beach Resort lost a number of bungalows and their restaurant. Fortunately their boat driver wasn’t out at sea when the Tsunami hit, however, Tongchai Janmanee (the father of the family) was injured while trying to save his family. He is recovering in a hospital in Krabi right now.

Longtail boatmen on the shore of Ao Nang. These men take farangs (tourists) on tours to the various islands and also run a water taxi service between this town and RaiLay beach (popular rock climbing spot) and Ton Sai beach. The boatman who Elizabeth mentions in her email was one of these Ao Nang locals who ferried people around.

This is my mother and sister on Chicken Island just off of Ao Nang. In the background is Poda Island.

Lung (Loong) was our boat driver at Ko Phi Phi who barely escaped the Tsunami. He ferried us around one afternoon, taking us to Maya Bay where “The Beach” was filmed and then taking us to some other bays for an amazing hour of snorkeling.

Pi Pon Janmanee (above with my friend Lyndy) and her husband Tongchai own the Toh Ko “resort” on the east side of Phi Phi. Although they call it a resort it’s more like a smattering of grass huts on a beach and a little thatched roof restaurant. Their bungalows are rustic and their beach is hard to get to, which makes it perfect if you want to get off the beaten path instead of just talking about doing it. They aren’t in the guide books, which is amazing considering most of this tiny Island was overrun with fancy hotels and bungalows. Their place is separated by a small mountain on this roadless Island and is just around the corner from the tourist saturated beaches, yet few people ever find this spot because you have to take a boat or hike over a hill for two hours to get here. While this is great for getting lost, it’s not going to be so great for the family who runs this little resort of sorts in the next year as Phi Phi was one of the hardest hit Islands and will take years to recover. One of the biggest concerns here right now is that so many bodies were lost that they will be popping up all around the Island and in the water for a long time.A grim thought, but a reality.

This was Phi Phi bay one week before the Tsunami hit.

This was Koh Rok, an Island off of Koh Lanta 3 days before the Tsunami. The sand was white and as soft as ash. The reefs were absolutely amazing. One of the concerns right now in Thailand is that all of the debris in the water and gas from vehicles and boats that spilled will cause long-term environmental problems in the fragile eco-system underwater. Only time will tell with this.

Shanti and Radha Sosienski enjoying the empty, quiet beach of Phi Phi. Note the bungalow in the background that is no longer.

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Every morning I would wake up at sunrise and go for a walk on the beach. Usually I would find Grandma and baby walking up and down the beach with smiles on their faces, not a care in the world. It’s hard to imagine what life is going to be like for so many families like this in Thailand who are so dependent on tourism.

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I never knew this woman’s name but her happy smile and her sweet shy baby caught my attention. She is Muslim like many of the families in the Southern part of Koh Lanta. Her family owns an elephant trekking operation. Mot of the women wear head pieces here.

Shanti, Radha and Lyndy on December 23. We all look at this picture and can’t believe how lucky we were to have left when we did. Still there is a bit of guilt at the fact that we can step on a plane and go back to our lives after a fabulous 2-week vacation. When you have the freedom and wealth that we have in the Western world, it’s easy to forget that the rest of the world isn’t living like us. Sometimes it takes human tragedy to remind us that we have to remember how lucky we are.

If you are interested in donating to any of the families or communities I have mentioned I have set up a Shanti’s Friends bank account that is connected to a Pay Pal account. I am still figuring all of this out but should have it squared away in the next day and will get that information and posted. Thanks for taking the time to read this and don’t hesitate to email me with questions.

Ko Phi Phi bay one week before it was flattened by the Tsunami

 

Notes from Thailand Vacation

 

Hello family and friends,

We are writing all to let you know that we are all home and safe after our two weeks in Thailand. We were indeed in the area that was hit very hard for most our trip, but left on December 24 (Mom and Radha) and December 25 (me and my friend Lyndy). Shown above is the pristine bay of ko Phi Phi (Pee Pee) where we were on December 17-19. Mom stayed at the Pi Pi Princess, which is no longer. We stayed on the other side of the Island in a place called Koh Tor (Koh To Resort) that is on the side of the Island facing Koh Lanta. We are unsure as to the fate of the lovely family we stayed with, but fear they are dead since they had no where to run to from where they were at. The structures were all grass bungalows on simple concrete pads fringing the oceanfront and a small private beach. There were no roads on Pi Pi and no communication beyond cell phone. We are hoping if we do get contact with the family that we can send help.

 

But stepping back a few steps because in spite of the sadness at the end, most of the trip was wonderful....We arrived in Ao Nang, which is near a town called Krabi on December 14th after a 24 hour plane journey. The air was warm, the sky slightly overcast, the beach very calm and lovely. The first day we met up with Rene, a friend from the US who was also traveling in Thailand at the time and knew we were coming. We rented a longtail boat and driver toured around some the the nearby Islands and Railay beach, the rockclimbing spot. Then we took a speedboat tour the following day. The islands are very close to the mainland and there are tons of them. With beautiful light blue water, amazing coral, white sand beaches as soft as ash and little shells dotting the pristine shores, there were times when it felt like we were experiencing a dream because it was so perfect. We were all in awe of it all from the smell of Thai food cooking in open air kitchens, to the perfect temperature, to the smiley Thais who were shuttling us around and helping us have such a good time.

 

On our second day in Ao Nang we went on a speedboat tour with 18 other tourists to Hong Island. Most of our group was from Hong Kong, but we befriended a German girl named Anja. Also that day we met Elizabeth and Sun on one of the little remote beaches off of Hong Island when we had a 30 minute stop. Elizabeth is ASutralian and is married to a Thai man named Sun. They run a tour operation called Krabi Island Tours (www.krabi-island-tours.com). We just have received an email from them letting us know they are ok, but have lost a boat and a motor. They were just heading out on a boat on to an Island when the Tsunami hit and they ran for higher ground. They are worried about business of course though now and think their livelihood is gone for the year. They are also nervous to go back out into the ocean because of all of the bodies that keep floating up on shore. Grim. On a lighter note, Elizabeth and Sun do private day tours where they really take you to places that few others see and avoid the tourist crowds for the most part....but it's the same price as the big boat trips. We were sorry we hadn't met her sooner in our trip, but we were off the next day to Ko Phi Phi.

 

Elizabeth and Sun


While in the Ao Nang area, which is about 45 minutes from the Krabi Airport, we really got into to the flow of the Thailand scene. Water was 10 BHT (25 cents), street meals were 15-25BHT. The same food could be had in fancy beachfront restaurants for 150BHT ($4US). scene in Thailand is very Westernized, but it's still pretty cool. You can never really blend in if you are a farang (white person), but you are very welcome to enjoy Thailand. The Thai people are so friendly and at one point my friend Lyndy said "You always act like someone is going to rip you off. The Thais just aren't like that." Funny thing is I guess I have spent too many years traveling in places where people do rip you off...so it's like instant reflex to think there's some scam happening. Funny thing is I was wrong. The thai people really appreciate the tourism and want to make your time in their country great so you'll come back.

 

 

Long tail at Chicken Beach

 

Just off the coast of Ao Nang on a boat tour to Hong Island. This little beach was a perfect Island with another little island attached by a sand bar.

 

On December 17th we headed on a ferry from Ao Nang to Pi Pi. Anja, who we met the previous day on a boat trip ended up traveling with us for the next week. We told her about Pi Pi and the rustic bungalows we were headed too to meet my American friend Lyndy who was living in Bangkok. Once in Pi Pi we set Mom up at the Phi Phi Princess (which is no longer) while we went around the Island via boat to just south of Runtee Bay.

Ko Phi Phi is a small Island with no roads and is next to Pi Pi Leh, the backdrop for the famous Leonardo DiCaprio late 90s movie "The Beach." It's said to be one of the most beautiful islands in the area and even in Thailand, however, we felt Koh Rok (near Koh Lanta) was even prettier in some ways. Phi Phi is really crowded with tourists. Probably 7,000 people on the tiny island and it was busting at the seams this holiday season. The main area is a packed bungalow filled beach with a few big hotels and the rest mainly backpacker bungalows. There's a stunning bay that's like a crescent moon and seems protected from the ocean. It's like a swimming pool and most of the tourists hang out here. The crowdedness gives it that sort of Waikiki feeling. Mom's hotel was one of the swankier ones with nice teak bungalows and a beautiful infinity pool looking out toward the bay.

 

We met up with my childhood friend Lyndy Worsham in Koh Pi Pi. She's living in Bangkok and speaks Thai and is learning Burmese. She took Radha, Anja and I on a longtail boat around the island to a side where there are very few tourists and it's not very built up yet. There was this lovely Thai family who took care of us for the 3 days we were there. Sorry to go on again about food but we had some of the best meals on our entire trip in this rustic, no electricity, way off the beaten path spot. Now it's so sad to think that Porn (pronounced Pawn) the woman who hosted us and her family are probably in seriously bad condition if alive at all. This is so sad as their business just seemed to really be taking off. While we were there they opened a new bar that was on the hillside (we are hoping high enough to not have been flattened) and we enjoyed a few drinks and watched as the moon began to eek it's way toward a full moon on Sunday night, one week before the devastation.

Koh Tor resort on Pi Pi's far side. This is where we met Paul and Dotty from San Francisco. They left on December 24 from Koh Lanta to head back home.

 

Chilling in the infinity pool at Mom's swanky hotel on Pi Pi

Koh Pi Pi Bungalows at Koh Tor. Our palace was a bit different than Mom's. we even had bed bugs which really made us feel like true backpackers for a minute.

 

Porn (Pronounced Pawn) was the woman we stayed with on Ko Phi Phi. Here she is with our friend Lyndy. We are still trying to find out her fate.

Lung, our boat driver who took us aound Ko Phi Phi. We are unsure as to his fate but have a feeling he and the rest of our family that took care of us at Koh Tor have perished. It's sad to look at this picture but also such a good memory.

 

On December 19th we left Koh Phi Phi on a ferry for Koh Lanta. Koh Lanta is to the south of Krabi and Pi Pi. We checked into the Narima, an eco-bungalow owned by a nice middle aged Thai couple who met in Colorado 33 years ago. Three years ago they opened the Narima after they retired from their jobs and Bangkok life. Their place is fairly hopping though so it's hardly retirement, but they see, to love it. We are happy to report that The Narima is still standing and wasn't affected by the Tsunami because of the angle of their beach (www.narima-lanta.com), The strange thing is that just to the north about a mile or so Sri Lanta resort was trashed. The beach in front of the Narima was rocky, so not really good for snorkeling, but there was an infinity pool to lounge by and just a short walk down the road a beautiful beach called Nui beach that was empty most of the time and golden sand and clear water.

 

 

 

Pristine waters of koh Rok

 

Over the next few days we cruised around KOh Lantaon Motorbikes, we took a boat trip to Koh Rok, which I think is one of the most beautiful places in Thailand. The snorkeling there was amazing. This is a horrible thing to say....but the life underwater looked exactly like Finding Nemo! Colors, every kind of fish you can imagine, coral and purple sea anemones. Every time we went under water it was like watching a crazy LA freeway suspended, weightless. Fish buzzing one way and then the other. Schools and solo fish, starfish, Lyndy even claimed to have seen a black tipped reef shark.

 

Koh Lanta has a very different look than Koh Pi Pi or Ao Nang. It's a very Muslim Island so many women ride around on motorbikes with long black burkas covering them or head scarves on the younger women. Apparently the Island has become more and more Muslim in the last 3 years. Sounds like America too eh? It's a peaceful place though with the main industries being tourism and fishing. Tourism has just come to Koh Lanta in the last 5-6 years and when I spoke to people who were just there last year they were amazed at how much had been built since they had last been there. We traveled to the south of Koh Lanta, which took about 45 minutes on a combination of dirt and paved roads. When we arrived at the Narima we were immediately impressed with the resort. There are 32 bungalows spread out on maybe an acre or two of land just above the ocean. A rocky beach sits below the infinity pool. To the south there is a great beachfront restaurant called The River where you can fill yourself with amazing Thai food for $3. Further down the road there is a little town and then a fancy $300 a night hotel called the Pimalia. We went for a quick tour of it and were not impressed. Not worth the $ at all....air conditioning and few windows to open. Seemed very sterile and although I am sure some love it, I could never see staying there.

 

 

Radha and Anja on Phi Phi Leh

Shanti and Radha on the scary Elephant trek to bat cave. Elephants were good, cave bad. Dark and filled with bats and spiders. Big ones!

The Narima bungalows nestled in a natural environment. Unlike many Thai resorts the Narima owners really worked hard to blend the cabins into the landscape and they did a great job of it. It was always so quiet and peaceful here. One of the things I got a kick at was watching people arrive at the Narima. Their road weary bodies would sink in to a chair at the entrance of the Narima and they would just melt and feel right at home. It was like staying in the jungle and camping, but upscale.

Shanti, Radha, Lyndy at an Indain (Indian spelled wrong on their sign) restaurant on Nice Beach.

 

ON December 25 at 6pm I flew with Lyndy to Bangkok. The next morning Radha, Mom and I went to the weekend market for a few hours and then headed to Wat ARun to spend some time with Buddha. The temples in Bangkok are amazing, so elaborate and well cared for. The Thai's love their Wats like they love their King. We had no idea as we meandered through the day what was happening in Southern Thailand. At about 3pm we heard a man on his cell talking about an earthquake in Sri Lanka and how he was having trouble contacting his sister over there. By 11pm that night the story began unfolding and we learned that many of the Islands had been hit by the huge Tsunami. It still didn't sink in though until a day later on the 28th when we were boarding the plane and the numbers of dead had been going up and up and up. It was so sad to have such a tragedy after a beautiful trip with the three of us....The last time I traveled with my mom and sis was 10 years ago...so it was a treat to spend so much time with them and just enjoy Thailand together. We were sad for so many reasons as our plane left Bangkok. This is all I can write for now....will write more soon. 

Buddha's in Bangkok at Wat Arun

Radha getting her snorkel on. Go white girl.

Motorbike gang in Koh Lanta

 

 

 

Mom and Radha checking out the fancy Sri Lanta. While there a guest reported a rat in their room...which we are guessing was a country mouse exaggerated. Lyndy made a good point, "People come to the jungle want to stay in open air bungalows and then squeal when nature gets in? What's wrong with them?"

 

Radha chilling at the Narima in the hammock

Shanti enjoying a little drink at a beach bar....literally on the sand, sitting on mats.